The other day I went for a walk in the
woods. I was carrying my son. We were hiking in a local, but
privately owned park. The snow crunched under my snowshoes as I
pointed out different types of trees and plants. My son isn't old
enough to understand, but something did catch his attention. He
pointed as a man with a dog came down the path to us. As the man
made to pass, I spoke.
“Sir,” I said, “Did you see the
sign the owners of the sanctuary installed?”
He stopped, uncertain, for normally
conversation in the park is limited to an echo of hellos.
“The sign asks that we no longer
bring dogs,” I continued.
“The sign says dogs aren't allowed
because people don't clean up after their pets. I clean up after
mine.”
“I am certain that is true,” I
said, “but the sign doesn't say, 'dogs are allowed only for those
who clean up after them'. It says that until further notice, no dogs
are allowed in the sanctuary.”
“I might have missed the sign. It's
rude to accuse me of an offense I didn't intend to commit.”
“Even before that sign, there was
another sign that said all dogs must be leashed. I notice yours is
not.”
“He has never bitten anyone in the
ten years I've owned him.”
“That may be true, but it does not
relate to what the sign says.”
“I don't agree with how you've
characterized the situation,” he said, “and I won't answer
anymore.”
That's when he stopped speaking to me,
yet he stood: unable to withdraw, bound by a perverse desire to see
where the conversation would lead.
“Sir, are you upset when others break
rules they shouldn't? You are not sure what I mean. For example,
have you seen others cross the street when they should not? Or they
drive through a yellow light that just turned red? I see you nod
in-spite of yourself. Do not be embarrassed to admit how you feel,
for I feel as you. Are these the same as what you have done today?
Some would say no, for in the first two examples, the negligence of
the actor could cause bodily harm. Do not forget that these are just
two examples. Maybe you have seen someone park in a place that they
shouldn't. It causes no harm, but is against the law. Perhaps this
is comparative to your act.”
I paused, but I could tell he didn't
agree with the conclusion.
“You still do not believe so. Those
were laws, but the sign is an arbitrary rule, created by bureaucrats:
no elected officials and no votes. That may be true. So I ask, are
you a believer in the right to property? I mean, does a man have the
right to do what he likes with the land he owns. You are a sensible
person, and of course you do. And here we are, upon the property of
another. It is open for our use, but it need not be. A similar
example would be of someone claiming their child is younger than is
true, to obtain a cheaper entrance ticket to an amusement park.
Still not the same you say? One includes deception and a theft, but
the other, bringing your dog does neither of these. But there are
places that ask you not to bring something in to prevent damage. The
United States Capital requires that you leave food and water outside.
This is to prevent damage to the exhibits. This example is exactly
comparable to yours. For though you clean up your dog, you are not
allowed to bring it, just as those who do not spill water are not
allowed to enter the capital building with it.”
Then the man shrugged, turned and
walked away. I knew I would see him and his dog again.
…
What does it all mean, and how does it
relate to politics? Its a conversation about victimization. Wait!
Don't leave yet. I understand you. You feel like a victim. You're
nodding your head. Well, I few of you aren't. What I really mean is
that most of us feel like victims. This is because: 1) most of us
break little, stupid rules and laws 2) we are upset when others break
different little rules.
Like the man and the dog, I break
simple rules for selfish reasons. I justify it by poor
rationalizations, that ultimately rest on the idea that I am being
unfairly persecuted. I am also irrationally irritated by others who
ignore rules. I construct a narrative for why the person is the way
they are, and why they deserve to be punished for the small
infraction. Both of these actions that I take are wrong. Neither is
helpful.
At all times, but especially this year
during the elections, the concept of victimization is crucial to
review. Some politicians appeal to our sense of victimization
explicitly, while others do subtly. When we approach the ballot box
we need to consider our true state. Are we really being victimized?
Each of us is a valuable part of a complex society where we receive
benefits. Sometimes we are unfairly inconvenienced, but are these
the result of true injustice, or accidental failure of the law? Even
if there are injustices embedded in law, consider the benefits of
your position. There are citizens that are unjustly deprived of
life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, but are our problems
upon this level, or only a small cost to aid the domestic tranquility
of the country. For the upcoming primaries, and the general election
after, consider this when you vote.
Can I best aid these United States of
America by being a victim, or seeking a new birth of justice and
equality for all?
Note: In case you are worried for my
sanity, the entire story about the dog is false – except for my
desire to have this conversation with people who are breaking this
rule in the park. But I politely bottle that inclination inside
myself.
I wonder if you think this explanation of mora outrage aligns with your story here? Even if not if could be an interesting framework.
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